Saturday, May 14, 2011

I NEVER FORGOT YOU

  •          How could a human being just give away their baby?.NO it just doesn't happen that way.The years have past and the industry got richer$$$$$$$$$$$,multi millions,and even worse they have gone to the limit by baby trafficking and baby snatching,a term used when a woman wants another real mothers baby so bad she or he kills the mother and takes the baby,look in the news,it's all over the internet,the crime division are seeing this horric crime more and more,some probably cruely say the mother deserved it,those that can't have their own so just take a mothers baby ,not help her if in a bad situation ,no just act like she had the mothers baby all along ,which is a severe deep rooted mental problem.It is not a crime when times are hard to be poor but like radar the adoption industry knows and preys to the mothers to be and children (children mostly for foster care) having this warm feeling around  the couples presence .The real parents thinking what angels to care for their child until they got their mortage straightened out due to the economic crash that caused the little family a repossession .                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                .Just child    .What   2013 has programs to help familys stay together and that is welfare.Like it or not people they count too and they have their own children to raise and they are not to belong to anyone ,yhe loving caring responsible parents.There is good and bad in all walks of life so it is not in the interest of the adoptors that have no business coercing a mother from preying deceitfully to get and keep her child.Programs now help and with Gods natural order of things get back to the desparate adoptees and their real parents that want their loved one back.The adoption Industry has it's ways.The broken hearted grieving ones should be together.There are some stories of bad parents ,some of earths humans will not be a good parent-that's why the government created counceling then if that did not work then the judge sends the child to foster care where it's risky for closed adoptions.Mothers  and their family  ,surveys say children don't pick their parents when their born . back you name it days of old,times were hard but they didn't have this horrible greed man made 100 year old law. Later on until from the 1930's the mother and their adoptees had no equal rights,and worse when they grew to be adults no idenity of who they were,no record of time of birth  ,that were changed in some states,place of birth,all wiped out as though the  natural mother never exited,she was never allowed to be mentioned or questions asked ,many adoptors definition in in dictionary,mothers have worse names we are called,the natural mother was to never be brought up ,if so threats of disinheritance, cut off from all moneys,stocks and bonds,and the countless wealth of things.To mention  the natural mother is only used for a pawn at the time,the adoptees parent the caretaker of someelses flesh blood and heritage is alot more,also no one can take awaw a mothers motherhood after the baby is born,the scientists have now didcovered instant recognition at birth,the baby being born skin to skin and the odour of mothers milk,nothing can replace the real thing,why then did they know to the day of Moses  the natural mother had no choice but to save her sons life ,not that she wanted some stranger raising much less holding her baby,the point is the woman that wanted to have Moses hid him and had to keep him alive ,knew about Moses mother so she the woman had moses mother feed him ,while hidden out,she had to do anything to protect him ,those days were barbaric and the reason was because Moses turned from his wicked ways even with all the wealth ,life caught up with him,so Moses as  baby knew his mother.Now days life is so fsr advanced that mothers don't have to hide ,be so mistreated called unmentionable names  The 30'.40's 50' 60' real bad,70' very bad ,still bad because the grown adoptees sill cannot claim their birthcertificate ,real heritage ,like in the past having a professor or two plus astounding people still effects a person to what they were to what they want in many different ways,but yours are all fake sorry you have no heritage unless the sealed to protect me which was all a lie for mothers it was obvious who this was for,it's even worse for the idenity,people might want to know who are you really? answer-i dont know . All that was in those evil papers.If you have children (                                                                                                                                                             The social worker couldn't tell me ) which was riduclous,she told me He's a lawyer loud and clear,here it comes more of this adoption lies I'm so tired of,.I must tell you and hope the records are opened to let the people go(sounds like Moses) Jen Graham is not to be trusted,she called me and said that you said a yes to conact and you were a lawyer ,I took this as truth why not next call she complained about your secretarys sanding her a fake email,she told me she did not want to pester you;then replied that your secretary said she was then she changed it to thought the secretary said she Jen was a saleswoman,so calimed she could not get through to your office since you were found .Did you get your med forms? I sent them two weeks along with the first letter,photos later,reason-she didn't get out your forms until judt before she closed the case.She had it all planned out what she wanted from me but she slipped big when she told me you were a lawyer,she even claimed now you only wanted a slow contact,at the end she said he wants a very slow contact ,as if to say you never wanted to see me,she tried to tell me when she called to play phychritrist again,she tried to distrct me and said I assume he's a lawyer,all that and one more proven fact she said to me to insult me early on-At least they sent him to law school,I remember telling her my nieces got their college for free on a grant for the american indains and their schooling to be a pilot and a dentist.Alot of young men and woman have gotten their schooling by their brains alone,without wealth,she said I opologize ,I'm sorry.I said NO not acceptepted.You will no longer get away with this again.You know it is against the rules what you did.Her voice was shaking but still she did not waver,she insulted me to the utmost and I would love to sue this terrible woman that shold not be allowed to work with people period.                                                                                                               I missed you for so many years ,only dead ends like the millions still in waiting and those in denial becaues they've been taught lies from the start  .I'm sure you have known wealth since the silver spoon was there,it's not  your fault,it's just I want you to know the truth and to be honest dear the truth does hurt,I will promise only to keep what I know a priority of love and say and do how you want,but wouldn't that be fake,I will tell you this much that I always blend in a crowd,not to shy. I am liked by strangers ,I'm friendly to people and turn on the charm in a humorous way-just blending in not sticking out or embarassing,The problem I have had that seems like a curse is ,others have been known to be jealous of me  at times of my life,no names mentioned. I have been loyal ,so loyal to others secrets of something different than what this is about,not proud of this whole adoption thing,it is not honorable as some think it used to be,it's all over every where how bad it is and the mothers have many proofs to back it up.This is big,very big,the whole world ,movie stars are talking about it now it's the people upset that they want to see and have     their  records open like the president,it's only fair and right ,else we have an unjust,unfair ststem we cannot trust in the USA.   P.S. The reason this is so long is my passion is writing,I have 30 or so books not published yet ,one day .
                                                                                                  Sincerely ,Arline ,your                                                                                                                                                                                                         1st mother  and family    P.S.I never forgot you

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Mother Lost to Adoption

T'm searching my son,it's been 37 years,He's a lawyer with a family ,adopted through  the Childrens Home Society-born September 25th 1973th  He wieighrd 6 pds,asked the nurse,she wan't supposed to do that I heard.You were born in the StMarys Hospital, West Palm Beach,Fla.The women knew that I was in a vunerable staate,I was 24 yrs old.I wasn't only vunerable but I hadjust had you and my mind was not thinking normanaly.My then husband your father (now deceased) 2005 had drained my whole savings from the bank,he took off abandoning us,your older brother 5 years your age .He was born in September also.I had no support from my mother due to my stepfather that treated me at 12 like I didn't matter,I wasn't allowed to bring you to my mothers,she coudn't take up for me she said because of her own securuty,she and my grandmother cotributed most of the funds to buy that house,my stepdad made an apartment in the back for his daughter and five children,it wasn't fair,my friends ran thinking I would need money,I never borrowed from a friend,theur were NO prograns back then,it was every man ,women for themselves,if i had married well No peoblem,then Michael or you wouldn't exist.You will ony be born one time and to the one that gave you life,If you read up and have time about mothers you will see alot of truths that were hidden years ago,medical records are closed tp protect adoptive parents from letting out vip information thaat envolves that childs life,the doctors don't have any such records as they must come from the real mother but the 100 year old law prevented yhis,Tdenitys were cahnged,places and even  the day of birthday,it;s as though were're lnown criminals with no rights -equal  rights like the black,gays and lesbians ( they adopt too, not normal )   The Childrens Home Society emeied me back 8 months ago saying they found you,I was to fr]ill out the medical forms first then she told me to write you letters and sendphotos too,she Jen Graham that you spoke with I have no idea waht she said,unfit to be around,and you name if,isn't a fasle statement deflamation of character? She comlained about your secretarys alot examples sent her fake email !! said secretary thought she was a salesperson !!You were never in your office to take a call,claims she could not satate who she was or why she was calling ?? I don't get this,my trust isn't so much for her,she was however afraid of you??I sincerely you or someone that knows you will show this to you,I;m on Facebook under ArlineHunter    arlinehunter386@gmail.com  my photos for resemblence purposes only ,my photos or  try all photo ,still new at being a selftaught internet newie,excuse my mistakes.I live up towards Jacksonville,Fla.Florida is still beautiful,I lived in south Fla;when you were born,Please don't wait like the others that regretted that they waited too long as though age stops for mothers waiting ,their getting older and closer ,no one knows when sooner or allitle later.Call or email facebook please Much Loove for you and family